Parallel Lives

Perhaps it was because Susan worked all her life, at a time when most women didn't. Or perhaps it was just the times. But Sue and Fran Deck led rather independent lives in the 1940s and early 1950s.

Susan went out with workplace friends to dinner and shows, socialized with her sisters and cousins, and cared for the children. Fran enjoyed the company of his own co-workers, bowling, and softball.

But all that changed on July 1, 1956, when Fran suffered a massive stroke. His whole right side was paralyzed, and he lost the ability to speak. No longer able to work, Fran remained at home for 10 years in Susan's care.

Meanwhile, daughter Elaine returned home with her newborn daughter, after her marriage deteriorated in 1956. Susan and Elaine lived together for the next 18 years, helping each other with their responsibilities.

Fran died July 26, 1966, due to lung cancer, at the age of 57.